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Judy Pyper

Bethany has the man and the ring—now her mom has the advice. Follow almost-empty nester and soon-to-be mother of the bride Judy on the lead up to the walk down the aisle.

Dear Bethany

Dear Bethany, Part 8: Say maybe to the dress

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Last time, on Dear Bethany: Everyone went over the river and through the woods to see…a new engagement ring! We did it.  Crossed one of the biggies off our list.  ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 7: Show Time!

Friday, January 11, 2013

Last time, on Dear Bethany: Bethany is home for the holidays, and Judy has a Santa-sized secret to keep–is there a ring under the Christmas tree? Here’s the entry you’ve ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 6: Home for the Holidays

Friday, December 21, 2012

Last time, in Dear Bethany:   Bethany and Zach learned to live long-distance, while we learned that living far away from your daughter and letting her go is only the ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 5: Going the (long) distance

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Last time, in Dear Bethany: John gave the Conditional Blessing with more than a few Conditions involved, and Zach answered with maturity and wisdom. He informed us he already had ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 4: Strings Attached

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Last time, in Dear Bethany: Zach and John went ten rounds on engagement negotiations via email before John came up with the marvel of modern parenting, the Conditional Blessing.   ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 3: Point/Counterpoint

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Last time, in Dear Bethany: we met Zach (a Naval Airman) and Bethany (a nursing student), and Zach met Bethany’s dad, John (a shrewd negotiator). Ding ding! Round One begins…now. ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 2: Negotiations

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Last time, in Dear Bethany: Zach, Bethany’s boyfriend, has picked the most opportune time to ask for her parents’ permission to propose. That’s a call every mom and dad want ...

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Dear Bethany, Part 1

Saturday, May 12, 2012

The phone call no parent wants to receive — though not in the middle of the night and with no police officer on the other end of the phone, still, ...

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